use the terminfo version of tparam() since the termcap version supplies
tgoto() which seriously screws up text display. ncurses-4.1 has both a
termcap and terminfo internal interface and is quicker with the terminfo
one even when it's read a termcap.db file.
(which was about equal to number of FreeBSD installations on Hale Bopp
itself). Seems like I need to just go ahead and commit it so people
can try out and scream!